Each toolkit is built for one ADHD family pattern: the starts that never happen, the carrying-it-all-in-your-head, the big emotions that move fast, the strong starts that stall out. Whatever your pattern, you get the full printed system: step-by-step visual tools, kitchen-table scripts, and setup guides, built for the way your family's brains actually work. No 200-page course. No perfect-family standards. Just the system that holds even when memory doesn't.
Find the toolkit for your family's pattern, and start tonight. Not sure which one is yours?
Complete Systems for Your ADHD Family Pattern.
You didn't mean to get pulled in. Your child didn't mean to explode. The moment just got bigger than everyone's nervous system.
The Family Calm Plan · $17
Build the supports before the next storm, not during it: co-regulation, de-escalation scripts, a calm corner, and the 24-hour rule. Includes The ADHD Connection Toolkit free: word-for-word scripts for the hard moments, ages 4 to 18, plus fridge cheat sheets.
Plus: add The Homework Toolkit at checkout for just $7 (normally $12).
I'm carrying everything in my head.
You didn't mean to get pulled in. Your child didn't mean to explode. The moment just got bigger than everyone's nervous system.
The Family Calm Plan · $17
Build the supports before the next storm, not during it: co-regulation, de-escalation scripts, a calm corner, and the 24-hour rule. Includes The ADHD Connection Toolkit free: word-for-word scripts for the hard moments, ages 4 to 18, plus fridge cheat sheets.
Plus: add The Homework Toolkit at checkout for just $7 (normally $12).
The smallest things turn into the biggest battles
The shoes are missing. The backpack's untouched. Your kid is standing at the edge of the task and just... won't cross into it.
The Family Launch Plan · $17
Lower the friction that keeps your family stuck at the starting line: five shifts that make starting smaller, easier, and calmer. Includes the Routines Toolkit free: done-for-you routines that work right out of the box, or customize them to your family's words and colors.
Plus: add The Homework Toolkit at checkout for just $7 (normally $12).
Every morning feels like we're already behind.
Some days everything feels harder than it should. The pressure builds. The overwhelm grows. And nothing seems to get done.
The Family Reset Plan · $17
Reduce the overwhelm with five shifts that help ADHD brains get started, keep going, and come back tomorrow. Includes the Done-For-Now Pack free: tools for calling it enough without calling it quits.
Plus: add The Homework Toolkit at checkout for just $7 (normally $12)
We start everything... and finish almost nothing.
The backpack sits untouched. The stalling starts before the pencil comes out. And by the time it's over, everyone's night is ruined.
The Homework Toolkit · $12
End the nightly war, and get the school on your side. Four shifts for calmer nights, a homework station setup, printable routine and timer cards, and the exact teacher emails that get real support, including reduced homework and 504 requests.
21 pages you can customize: your words, your colors, your family. Start with the homework station tonight.
Homework turns our whole evening into a fight.
Need More Support?
If these tools resonate with you, you may also benefit from deeper guidance through ADHD Family Shift, where we work on the patterns underneath the stress, not just the surface behaviors.
the family shift quiz:
Your family isn't failing.
You're likely caught in a pattern no one ever taught you how to recognize.
Every ADHD family gets stuck somewhere.
Some struggle to get started.
Others carry too much in their heads.
Some get pulled into big emotions.
Others feel like they're constantly spinning in circles.
This 2-minute quiz will help you discover your family's pattern and your first small shift toward calmer days.